Seriously, they must have no idea how many men use their partner are their sole emotional outlet.
We hear everything. Pillow talk gets pretty deep, possibly because a lot of men feel a comfort from a loving partner that they receive nowhere else. We hear their worries, their traumas, their insecurities. We understand and sympathize with men's issues a lot more than men seem to realize.
Also, to the male lurkers: thank you for not commenting. I know it's gotta be hard to have to hold back, but we appreciate it.