You missed the 'in my experience' part of my sentence.

Its an anecdote.

That's what 'in my experience' means.

But again, broadly speaking... statistically valid correlations can and do exist between people's sexuality and many, many other aspects of themselves, their lives.

Like you can say oh, sexuality has no impact on who someone is or what they are capable of or what their life will look like... but this just assumes society is totally materially and morally neutral, and it treats all sexualities with statistical invariance, and it also precludes the possibility that to any extent, innate, complex biological differences exist.

You're basically saying sexuality is just an arbitrary choice, that society respects totally, thats the only way you could thoroughly believe that 'sexuality has nothing to do with ... capabilities or intellect.'

(You're also confusing outcomes with capabilities in that particular line, but w/e)

LQBTQ+ people are certainly statistically more likely to:

Experience physical violent crime against them,

Become homeless,

Commit suicide.

The idea that someone's sexuality doesn't have any influence on I guess seemingly unrelated aspects of their lives, their experiences, their outcomes, is just objectively false.

But if we do want to talk about actual data and studies, irt to sexuality and human intelligence, here's a fairly recent meta analysis:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7031189/

Without going into it in too much detail, there do actually seem to be some statistically significant differences between different kinds of intelligence per homo/hetero male/females, and the paper does go into some proposed theories as to the actual biological mechanics of why these differences may exist.