Whether I'm in any position of power is irrelevant in a small Lemmy instance. What I'm saying is your behaviour is consistently misaligned with our ethos. As I said, just learn from this, and all is well.
Our only rule is to Bee Nice. Once you get to know people here, you can of course be a sarcastic prick, but it's the same rules as real life ... you can't just talk to a stranger as though they were your best mate.
This really isn't a high bar.