i identify so much w this meme since most of my cousins and i did something similar at my grandfather's funeral.
i did it because i knew that he never bothered to make amends for the neglectful alcoholism he exhibited to my mother and her older siblings and i know that most of my cousins did it because we all descend from a class low enough not to understand proper decorum in such situations.
either way, it was pleasing to see that my grandfather's second wife and adopted daughter HATED the fuck out of us for ostracizing him from the family for his behavior and that they literally had to pay a lot of money to watch us desecrate the memorial.
i can only hope that my own passing is so dramatic and completely unnoticeable to me. lol