Also, I seriously doubt any of them would bust a grape in a food fight
This person disagrees and captures the energy well I think lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5Tiwtwr_dg
If your point is that angry leftists are far less likely to shift into advocating for or directly doing violence without the leftist context around them immediately shutting them down for going off the deep end, sure but also... don't mistake people using guns for a stand in for their identity as the whole of gun ownership, they are just the most immature and loud ones....
More importantly, don't conflate the aesthetic attraction to violence and physical violent (nonconsentual) dominance over others as the same thing as the capacity for violence or self defense.
The largest subset of gun owners who actually identify deeply with their guns are hunters... which cannot easily be described as simply "conservative" exhibit A being how many hunter based environmental groups have consistently advocated for habitat and wetland protections in a way conservatism is hostile to.