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[–] 38 points 19 hours ago (12 children)

The bisexual duality can not be satisfied by the binarity of one partner, leaving a lot of space for unhappiness, uncertainty and confusion, in a state where certainly might have been exspected.

This is an extremely common and extremely silly take. Bi folk aren't any more or less "satisfied" in a relationship than mono folk are. People (bi or otherwise) betray their partnership commitments all the time, but for whatever reason bisexuality seems to get conflated with infidelity / general profligacy. It's an ugly and inaccurate stereotype.

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  • [+] -16 points 16 hours ago (11 children)

    Some reason? Come on, not that complicated if you put yourself in a normal person head.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

    normal person

    Sure, I can do that. quick question, by "normal" do you mean someone who has median characteristics across the board, or are you one of those people who define normal by their own tastes and experiences?

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  • [–] -1 points 50 minutes ago (1 child)

    Well you clearly know what I meant so you aren't stupid, so maybe willfully ignorant?

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  • [–] 1 point 13 minutes ago

    I am neither, and I also don't know what you meant, which is my point. Sometimes I ask pointed questions to demonstrate a flaw in the framing of a proposition. In this case, it's that there's no such thing as an objectively "normal person", that phrase is meaningless outside of a particular frame of reference, and I can't put myself in the mind of a "normal person" without knowing what the frame of reference is. Which would imply that maybe it's a more complicated situation than you seem to think.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

    If you don't have an actual point to make, why are you even speaking up?

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  • [–] 0 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

    It's just am excerise in putting yourself in others shoes, why don't you take your own advice?

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