It's just where I jumped into the thread.

And yet, you made it about yourself, even though it wasn't directed at you.

Sexism isn't just "mean", no need to minimize it. Sexist remarks do exactly what you say: they distract from the actual lives destroyed, the children ripped away from their mothers, families torn apart, etc, just for a "gotcha" moment and high fives.

There are much more productive (and frankly creative) ways to rightfully shit on her while bringing attention to those actual issues. One can take off the kid gloves without sexist behavior, if one actually gives a shit about her fucked up and depraved actions.

Let me reemphasize: this was never about you. It was never directed at you. Yet, you made it about yourself multiple times.