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[–] 47 points 11 hours ago (4 children)

M4M4BEAR = man for man for bear

Bear in this context means a hairy man who is big

While the X4X is common notation for roleplays and other sexual stuff with the forst X being the seeker, seeking for(4) the second X, it can develop into a train like here where a man is looking for an other man and a bear(man)

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  • [–] 25 points 11 hours ago* (2 children)

    Just semantically, I’d expect m4m4bear to be a man seeking a man who is seeking a big hairy man.

    Like Bob wants to find a big hairy man, but doesn’t want to go it alone, and so wants another man as a partner in the persuit.

    I just realized this is why my friends think I have the tism.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 hours ago

    Semantically I would agree with you since usually the nomenclature is tonuse a + or & to denote that the seeker is looking for two or more people, however I have seen a 4 train often enough for it to be also a common way.

    Also cheers for the tism

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