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Who do you want to be? and how close are you to becoming that person? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 6 days ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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Not asking about achievements in work/love/health/etc. but about your esence as a person. Like how you wish people would describe you.

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[–] 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Reads very similar to me. I'm mid 30s and still a kid, dont really care what others think, I'm not gonna be a boring ass adult. Lost a lot of friends due to them bring boring as shit and ignoring me. Not a big deal, I make more friends.

(Note that this doesnt mean being irresponsible and immature. I mean not giving in to having a TV in my bedroom so I can watch football and the news all day after work then sleep, and never do anything else. No thanks. )

I also can't grow a beard lol.

You do you but dont change yourself because you think its wrong. Unless that makes you happy.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    I'll never be a football guy that's for sure. But yeah I'm still trying to figure myself out. Nothing wrong with eccentric maturity I suppose. Still be a silly little shit but don't overdo it?

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  • [–] 1 point 6 days ago

    People also used to make fun of me for being goofy and autistic, still do, and I don't really give a shit now.

    Like I said you be you, maybe if you feel like changing it up see how you like it but dont force yourself to be a dark brooding person if thats not you at all. Just my opinion

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