Well THAT'S pretty fuckin toxic. Yikes.

As someone who was bullied a lot, I frequently got told fighting back (against the boys at my all boys school) would restore my pride. I was never told "go find a girl to hit when she's mean to you, it'll restore your pride."

Take that for what it's worth.

Byeeeeeee.

Specifically referred to as "children" and then exclusively uses pronouns as the only form of gendered language, in a language where it is standard to use gendered pronouns when referring to a specific individual.

Yes, the comment could have used "they" instead of "he/his" but that is not yet common practice in English (though I wish we'd get there)

Next question please.