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[–] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 child)

I am talking more about being an expert on what is best for people, 90% of the time people with kids wanted them beforehand, so I don’t buy the good feelings they might have had raising children would apply to everyone if they simply accepted what they didn’t want and had kids themselves anyway

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago

    The funny thing is that all the people Ive met who have told me to have kids anyways have been like this.

    Theu said that THEY felt good giving birth to and raising their kids ....therefoee they claim to be an expert in MY situation and tell me I should have kids anyways cause itll make me feel better despite barely knowing about my situation...

    And there are probably other people out there doing the same to other people

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