Op over there like, "I can't have kids it would ruin my "preferred lifestyle" " then complaining when people comment on their lifestyle.

The most common response is "that's selfish"

Aye if youre oit here having kids when the option to adopt is present and available then you might as well see yourself as being a 'bakers dozen breeder'

There are dozens of kids to adopt in every country on the planet. ALL these children are worthy of parents' love. And the fact that most of humanity has put up so many hurdles to make adoption occur and would only care for a child if it shares DNA with them further convicts humanity about our lack of our care for the most important beings of human society .