Conflict is solved only through domination, forgivness, or avoidance.

Forgiveness only resolves conflict if both sides acknowledge the wrongness of the action and the victim accepts it enough to move on.

Do you think this little girl should accept being dominated and be treated as second class person or receive verbal abuse or should she be ostrizied from society in order to avoid that abuse?

Best case, the authority figures caught the abuser and punished him before further escalation happened, they failed to reprimand him for his sick behavior and thus codoned it, forcing the victim or her friends to decided for themselves when on the conflict continuum they were going to be.