Don't you think you're overthinking it? Or did any of your reasons ever come true, so to speak?
When would it be a problem if someone deduces that your email domain is your own personal one?
For your other point, do you mean that someone gets access to your email - they actually break into your inbox. If they see you have a mailbox called service@domain.tld, they'll know that's going to be the signup you used for service.com. Is that what you're referring to? Doesn't seem like a big cause for concern to me, so am I missing something?