I didn't take it as undermining. It's a complicated thing to understand (took me years) so questions are understandable.

It was a psychiatric therapist at a mental hospital. We talked everyday for weeks with her asking me all kinds of questions and asking me to act out scenarios to assess my mental state.

She said it was obviously clear I had extreme issues with authority and rules (if the rule doesn't make sense or isn't fully explained I simply won't follow it and sometimes will go out of my way to make a show of ignoring/breaking the rule) and that I have violent tendencies (that was obvious at that point I just didn't know why).