you're valid, your feelings are valid, your desires are valid!

i'm honestly kinda iffy on having breasts. i don't think there's a right way to do this. do whatever leads to more euphoria and less dysphoria.

i think the whole comparing one's self to others is just something that's part of our neoliberal individualist culture. we're subtly and sometimes unsubtly trained to do it from youth. don't beat yourself up about it.