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[–] 5 points 3 weeks ago* (6 children)

My wife likes when I grab her neck. I am an introverted duck kind of guy, okay? Not your ”Im gonna choke you while I fuck you” kind of guy.

While learning how to do this appropriately, I had squeezed too hard once and killed the mood. 🤷‍♂️

It’s more of a grab, firm hand… not really choke.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

    Not trying to judge you sir. Just stating the fact that constricting breathe in any way leads to brain death.

    The euphoria that is felt from doing this is due to oxygen deprivation. Doing this regularly with a partner will lead to permanent brain death. This does not mean they die of course, but a part of the brain does and the damage is cumulative.

    I personally don't find giving my partner brain damage to be very sexy. Have fun and be safe!

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago* (1 child)

    In my wife’s case, it’s mental and not physical. She doesn’t like being choked. She likes the feeling of my hand around her neck. It’s like a domination kind of thing, or something. In similar vein, she likes being called a good girl.

    There is no oxygen deprivation going on.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

    yeah, a distinction has to be made between real choking (which can't really be done safely, even a little bit) and mimicking choking with minimal pressure placed somewhere it won't actually affect blood/air flow. I am willing to do the latter but would never ever consider the former.

    Knowing some anatomy helps, as it's a lot safer to put pressure on muscles like the upper trapezius that are fully behind the trachea or major arteries/veins. Combine that with light pressure in the front on the collarbone and you have a relatively safe approximation of choking.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    the brain does and the damage is cumulative.

    How can you tell if that cumulative damage is present? What are the symptoms? I didn't know that :o .

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