First of all 🫂 Sorry for your pain

Secondly I find it sad thatthe common people have such a dangerous breeding kink that that they force this kink onto others by restricting access to birth controls, abortions and sterilizations for other people.

Thirdly Ill try to give you some advixe nut Ill let it he known that Im a 30 year old who has never been in a relationship and I was easily able to get my vasectomy at 23 years old so you can take this with a nig grain of salt since my situation is like iyours in almost no way. Ill say that one thing you can try to do is fimd a male friend of yours that you can REALLY really trust and you and that male friend get isnide the gynecologist's ofice, pretend that male friend is your boyfriends and say that you and him have had like 3 accidental pregnancies in the last 2 years and youre worried that you dont want to habe anymore accidental pregnancies. The gynecologist may give you the appointment with Planned Parenthood or wjatever types of surgeon does bisalps in your part od the world. They keep on rejectinf you after doing this? Then just try your best to wait i out till youre 30 or 35 cauee most Gynes are so brain ldead that they think that ONLY people of that age or older are sure enough of themselves to get a bisalp and not want it (even though the abortion and vasectomy regret rates are at like 5-10% depending on whicH studies you look into .So the bisalp regret rate is probably at a similar percentage) .

Also never settle when it comes to your dreams to be childfree. I feel that there will be many people who will come into your life trying to convince you or foorcing you to not be childfrrree anymore cause theyll say something along the lines of 'oh hey there are very few childfree males or childfree people to hook up and get into a relationship with ! So you oughta settle NOW and just have kids anyways ...(even though youll end up becoming an r/RegretfulParent Lol XD 😋)". Please dont listen to these ignoramuses . Theyre just mad that they, unlike you, having had the choice to remain childfree as you have they chose to become regretful parents... . Its your body , your life, , your rights, and your happiness -flex them when you feel like flexing them and grab ahold of your means of reproductions.... and use your rights to not reproduce when you feel like not reproducing.

Best of wishes on your journey 🫂