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I never have special interests for that long though

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[–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

It helped explain some things about my wife - has helped us both. The ADHD diagnosis was much more helpful. I'd like to know either way, but it's not the end of the world either way :)

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    My spouse and I both sought formal diagnosis last year. I had been on ADHD meds for two years by then and he has not been on any.

    I went for ADHD and Autism and he did ADHD only. One year later he's like, um, I guess I'm autistic too eh?

    Sharing in case it makes any thing feel more 'normal'.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Honestly, I'm not overly worried about it. If I do and got a diagnosis, it might help bring a little more understanding, but the ADHD explains most of my problems (and strengths). lol. So I'll probably continue to waffle a bit.

    But knowing my wife has it for sure helps. We've definitely made some adjustments that just make sense now.

    My dad almost certainly has ADHD but never got a diagnosis. In his case, it's more like my possible autism - if he does have ADHD which we're all (including him) pretty convinced, he managed to mask / cope well enough throughout his life - a diagnosis seems like a "whatever why bother".

    Sorry to spend all this time talking about myself, it's ADHD verbosity. But I find everyone else as interesting as myself, too! :)

    Speaking of which, your comment made me smile. No matter the exact mix of stuff, it does seems like a lot of us find each other, one way or another. lol. That's why my wife and I married - half a decade before our diagnosis - because we were the only people laughing at each others' jokes. lol

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Sorry to spend all this time talking about myself, it's ADHD verbosity. But I find everyone else as interesting as myself, too! :)

    Something I love about this community is that we can be ourselves. I think people here are understanding that what you are describing is one way ADHD/autistic people express empathy and connect with each other. No need to qualify it!

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