I think "authoritarian" is a principle of concentration and protection of power in the same way "democracy" is a conceptual term for structured collective guidance and oversight of an operation, and "anarchy" is the principle of maximizing agency of groups and minimizing the ability of any party to wield coercive power, etc.
They're concepts.
My interest isn't in categorizing and ranking nation states, it's in examining and weighing the qualities of different approaches.
When someone says that a term like "authoritarianism" is meaningless, I just don't feel like having an arugment. It's like 'I don't see color' or 'age of consent? I think maturity is what matters.' Alright, have a great day, I'm gonna go over there.