I have known enough women to know its pretty prevalent for them. I don't think that means the intention for it to happen to men is less as much as its a bit trickier to do so happens less. It gets a bit wierd though because its kinda hard to have consensual sex without a certain amount of going for it and stopping if you meet resistance. Heck. Like it or not even resistance has wierd societal things. I can say I dated a girl who when w made out told me I was going to far so I stopped going that far until she communicated she was ready. She dumped me for a guy that im sure was not as conscientious in that way as I. I also knew one that talked about this great guy that she wished things had gone better. I asked about the physical relation and she said it never went anywhere because he did not push for it. I asked if she had with other guys who did push who she did not like as much and she said yes. Sex is complicated.