This is literally my current relationship situation, and hey, I'm happy :3
We both look a bit different on the outside, but on the inside...this is us 🩷

Also I won't ever stop wearing this really fucking stupid-looking hoodie. You literally can't make me 😭

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[–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

The simple explanation is that bi implies a binarity of gender (men/women) but pan applies to everybody regardless of their physical attributes (you're attracted to a person, whatever physical form they may have)

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  • [–] 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

    No; it doesn't. We've been saying this since, at least, the 90s:

    Bisexuality is a whole, fluid identity. Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or duogamous in nature: that we have "two" sides or that we must be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don’t assume that there are only two genders. Do not mistake our fluidity for confusion, irresponsibility, or an inability to commit. Do not equate promiscuity, infidelity, or unsafe sexual behavior with bisexuality. Those are human traits that cross all sexual orientations. Nothing should be assumed about anyone’s sexuality, including your own.

    —The Anything That Moves Manifesto, 1990

    Bisexuals are attracted to people who have the same gender as their own and those who have a gender different from their own; that's the extent of the two.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago* (2 children)

    Yep thats the not so simple explanation about bi people, but you should also explain the difference with being pan then.

    Edit: added the second part

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