This is literally my current relationship situation, and hey, I'm happy :3
We both look a bit different on the outside, but on the inside...this is us 🩷

Also I won't ever stop wearing this really fucking stupid-looking hoodie. You literally can't make me 😭

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[–] [S] 7 points 3 weeks ago

I hate that I understand that so fucking much...my country is the same. This is a gross generalization, but the men are conservative (and drunk af), the women are conservative, no one even knows what trans people are, everyone's either knowingly or unknowingly a transphobic prick and I'm depressed from the fact 🥲

Transphobia, transphobic slurs, bigoted assholesThe "default" word people use to describe a trans women here is transka. I'm still not quite sure if it's offensive or a slur, but it sure as shit sounds like a slur. I've been called that word before (by my ex-BFF, nonetheless, fuck that guy and his TERF gf) and it definitely didn't feel good...

I fucking hate this country. People are like "Oh, I don't care, I'm tolerant, I don't care about you I only care about my own life." and they go from that to "No I'm not gonna use your preferred pronouns, you fucking t*****, you don't seem like an enough of a woman to me. When I feel that you're ""female enough"", I'll try. You've only been on hormones for a month anyway, it's not like you just turned into a woman."
These are legitimately words aimed at me. I've heard these from him. This was early HRT, a very emotional time. It hurt like hell. And he STILL insisted he wasn't bigoted, that he only "had a differing opinion". God, what an asshole.

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