Gonna preface this by saying that we're plural and actually prefer being called y'all. We're from Texas and are blessed with a plural second person pronoun to use.

With that said.

We don't care if someone calls us "you." Because they're still talking to us after finding out we're plural. They're not freaking out and asking which one of us is the violent one or the real one. And they're not calling us "schitzo" or "faker" or any of other shit that systems, particularly endogenic systems such as we, get called. We're not being harassed or outed or doxxed, or told that we're ableist just for existing. We're getting called a non-derogatory pronoun that is consistent with what we are, even if it isn't what we prefer.

We're not demanding that interaction with us be contingent upon following a complex set of requirements.

Because it's usually easier to just block someone like that. Which means all someone with arcane dni requirements gets in their inbox is hostility from people who don't care about the novella-length manual.