Totally.... I also "solved" it best i could. One dedicated totally anonymous phone for android-auto and one for banking-apps (they ALL need their fucking apps even though i use HBCI with most). Main phone is an aging pixel with graphene. The moment it dies (i'm waiting for many years now) i'm going some linux-phone, no matter how lacking it might be.
Apple is a no-go. But yes, at least there's "only" one that i have to bend over for. But I was there when they tried so hard with "pay less, get more!" and now it's "get less, pay a lot more you dumb stupid consumer-trash-idiot". I would be ashamed of myself for using one.
But yes. It sucks. And i was dumb enough to kinda believe google with "android will always remain free and open!". Yeah sure. Go fuck yourself.