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[–] 124 points 1 year ago (19 children)

When I was 14 I got turned down by a friend who proceeded to date a 27 year old man.

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  • [–] 72 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Be a little nicer to them, they got rejected for some old dude!

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    They deserved it. They should have known to wait 13 years to date a 14 year old. The equation is 1/2 your age +1.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My wife's sister dated a guy in his 30s when she was 19.

    So much trauma for a decade.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I was groomed by a guy in his 40s when I was 16 to 18. He was also suspected to have sexually abused younger kids. I've been in a relationship with my current partner who's my age for over a decade now. The abuser knew very well how to take advantage of vulnerable girls. And yes. That trauma will stay with me. I still have nightmares. For the first year with my partner I would frequently wake up from these nightmares and be so relieved to be next to my partner to comfort me. I found out very recently that the asshole is still out and about, but got cancer, so there's some karma there.

    I'm sure that if I had better friends and wasn't so lonely and had a better situation at home I wouldn't have fallen for this. These abuser really know how to pick their victims.

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