Ive had to come to terms with that.

One of the conditions was to make sure google photos etc. auto backup options were off so nothing ends up in AI training data but at a certain point I cant personally inspect everyones phones to see if theyve opted out of apples auto opt in photo scanning and shit like that.

It gets tiring to say "hang on wait, have you got XYZ disabled" every time before someone wants to take their own photos, which I would love if people just used their brains in the first place.

The most reasonable thing I can do is set ground rules like secure communication channels and no social media posts etc. and especially no AI but I suspect these rules have been broken at some point.