fyi: it's "drugs"

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[–] 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Completely agree with you. I honestly feel a little sick if someone says they were doing it as a favor to me. Don't do that. If you aren't into it, just tell me. I can take of myself in that case.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    Exactly this. Hell, I've had instances where one of my partners just isn't into it, or something happens and they're not feeling it anymore, and it just takes all the enjoyment out of it.

    Consent, connection, and enjoyment are critical for me.

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