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A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

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Some helpful links:

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.

Support Hotlines:

The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

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I'm never going to be enough for anyone (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 month ago by WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I'm so tired of being thrown away. I'm so tired being treated with cruelty. I'm so tired of being told that I am loved and wanted when I am so alone.

I'm so tired. I just want it to stop. I just want to give up. Love is a lie Community is a lie The only thing that's real is pain and isolation

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[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 month ago

I live in a transphobic society, and i decided to think of it in another way. Its not that i am not worthy for anyone, its that everyone is not worthy of me.

Why should i care for those people who think that i am a weird confused guy in a dress?

It does not solve the loneliness problem, but it gives me a clear reason on what the problem is. It also works as a morale boost. Its me who decides to be friend with, and those are people around me who must be worthy of my friendship.

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