It needs to be met with support example setting. If someone refers to their own experience in terms that lean on exclusionary language, a good response isn't telling them how they have to refer to themselves, but instead, showing them by example that there are more inclusive, open ways of thinking about their own experiences in the way you talk about your own experiences. Change comes from giving folk room to grown and showing them empathy whilst they navigate the unpacking of enforced binary and transmedicalist perspectives.

i leave this to the people who has the spoons for it. this was my initial approach, nowadays i am tired and overwhelmed and i just want to be able to discuss and speak things without feeling forced to teach other people all the time. i can understand you have the spoons, i simply don't.

in the moment i have to assume that, i simply run away from that space as i did many other times before when the situation was too much for me to handle without a person next to me assisting me on it or until i had the spoons to fight again.