Great tips. It doesn't really align with a lot of sexual violence that occurs or how to protect people that have been victim and want for future victims to not happen though.
Even if we did all of what you suggest for people I know, they still had their drink spiked, were abused by the coach/medical practitioner/celebrity/rich asshole, were groped at work by a superior, etc. Some of them went to make a police report and nothing happened, some of them heard of someone else down the line that got abused in the same way by the same person. What I know is none of them saw their abuser facing any meaningful consequences. Statistics on sexual violence seem to agree with my anecdotal evidence.
Do you have any tips for these situations, that are more common than people think? What happens when a relative say they have been predated on, but they don't have, like I said, ironclad proof or means to defend themselves legally? How do you help protect people then? Do you wait for a definitive legal proof of it or do you believe what they are saying? In the same way, I feel, when accusations are numerous, seem credible, are coming from people that don't know each other and don't seem to profit in any way from it, I find it hard to say that I need to wait for a trial or something. I am not saying that in the case of this person with Jay-Z it applies, I know nothing about it. What I know is people that could do basically nothing but pass the word to not choose that coach for their kids, if you know what I mean. And they have to live with the knowing that kids are still probably being predated on by that coach.
I get your position though. Let's do everything we can to _prevent _ anything from happening. That's great and I agree. What do we do when it happened?