I feel your pain. Im in a similar situation but what I really want to find out is if I have this variation on dyslexia someone mentioned here. Its initial thing was about hitting things when you pass them by which I do pretty regularly and have done my whole life. Along with tripping, and I am sorta clumsy with tying and buttoning and such (I have so often had a scenario when im doing it in someones prescense and they get annoyed and do it for me). I do this thing when parking where I am adjusting again and again. My dad used to do it to. knocking things over or literally not setting them on a surface but on the surface edge. Always bad at sports. Had othopedic shoes because of my gait but now I wonder. Can't draw to save my life. Things that are hard to explain with breathing and posture. But then there are other things. I distinctly remember when I learned how to read because I was having trouble and was put in the dummy group. My older sister was forced to help me at home which made her angry at me. When I learned to read it was all of a sudden and I became an avid reader. It was like all of a sudden it just made sense. I talk to others and they remember a gradual process of learning to read. I don't think anything can really be done about it but man it would make so much sense to know.