You're incorrect. I have a number of people in my life who "did something bad" to me whom I've forgiven after the right things were said and right actions were taken. I have also done "something bad" to others and made an earnest apology. Don't presuppose who I am because it doesn't fit your own narrative.
We need to be more forgiving. That's not a blanket statement - it requires proper apology and actions from the person who "did something bad."