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[–] 5 points 2 months ago* (6 children)

I'm so pissed.

my FOO didn't tell me or my daughter that my father, her grandpa had died.

over two years ago

she's really upset

here's the thing, miss seagoon has had regular contact with two uncles and a cousin the whole time and none told her

I know what happened, the two golden children, my older sisters, took control of all the event and took control of information

all the others are too scared to do the right thing or be themselves

it really shows what the family dynamic is, what they think of us and how much they care

miss seagoon cried

I have unresolved anger , my father was a bad man who physically and mentally abused his wife and children, causing life long problems

my sibs are awful

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    I’m so sorry. Even when we know someone is not a good person, it’s still hurtful when they do things like this. It’s so hard. I also have crappy family, so I understand that people like this exist. But you’re a good person and that’s what counts. The shame is on them.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    That's terrible, I'm sorry you had to find out so far after the fact. You've been working through so much of your trauma, I'm sorry your "family" isn't helping you like they should. Sending gentle hugs and warmth. I hope Miss Seagoon gets to make peace. She can still have contact with the uncles and cousin or has this soured it for her?

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