No, never have. I also never had a life full of exciting sexual situations and growing up I never found anyone until I was 25 before my first real anything. So 1 and done, been married for 13 years now. I think there was a brief moment years back were I think she almost cheated on me, but I am pretty positive she never did. I saw texts between her and a friend where it seemed like it was going to happen but I confronted her and she swears she didn't (I know hard to believe) but things went back to normal after and never seen anything indicate otherwise. And no she is not that smart to hide stuff so I would absolutely would have found out.

As for me, I often thought about if I could cheat. Years back I would say absolutely not, but these past few years I now say I guess it's a great thing I am absolutely not desirable and preoccupied with kids and life to ever be put into a situation where that would ever be an option. I would love to think I would do the right thing, but life is really hard and when your partner is starting to slow down in that area and theres still a thousand things I would love to try, it kind of hurts thinking this just isn't in the cards for my life. Yes we have talked about it, if theres anything I am ok at it is communication and we do have an ok sex life, but after years of basically discovering everything there is from this one and they don't really understand what i mean by looking for something new it is kind of hard to figure out what else to do. Also for the record I was also her first and should be only partner as well. Guess time will tell what happens.