Until very recently, Karyann Parkinson lived in leafy Williamsburg, Virginia. She and her husband, Dallin, moved there from Utah so Parkinson could attend William and Mary Law School.

In June, when Parkinson was preparing for the bar—and also happened to be eight months pregnant with her fifth child—she and her then-youngest, Sam, went for a bike ride, as they often do. They stopped for her son's favorite activity: collecting goose feathers from the path near their community pond. When they got home, he asked if he could walk back and get some more.

Parkinson said yes. It's a short walk, along a sidewalk separated from the street by 10 feet of grass. Sam would have to cross two streets with crosswalks, which she'd seen him do safely hundreds of times—including six times that morning, she says. Off he went while she made lunch.

A passerby saw Sam and alerted security. One of the community's security guards escorted the boy back and gave Parkinson an earful. Pretty soon there were three cop cars, just as many cops, a security vehicle, and two Child Protective Services (CPS) workers at Parkinson's door.

CPS ended up investigating her for abuse and neglect.

The cops, meanwhile, charged her with contributing to the delinquency of a minor. CPS found the allegations substantiated and placed Parkinson on the state's child abuse and neglect registry. She will remain there for seven years.

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[–] -4 points 2 months ago (8 children)

some parents are comfortable with exposing their child to drugs, too. i dont think thats a metric you should rely on.

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    Wow, you escalated this from a boy taking a walk in his own neighborhood to being exposed to drugs.

    Clutch your pearls harder, why don't you?

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 2 months ago* (5 children)

    I'm sorry for what you've had to deal with, but this is not what we're talking about here. THIS mom did not shoot a dog in front of her child, THIS mom did not rape her son, THIS mom isn't pushing drugs on her kids.

    also i hope you dont have a child, it sounds like you’d let them hang out near ponds without supervision, which is wildly irresponsible at best.

    This is rude as fuck.

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    no, i believe you are arguing in bad faith, on the side of parental neglect. if you had read my original comment, i said i didnt think she should have gotten this response from letting her kid walk the neighborhood. i had a specific issue with letting him be unsupervised near a pond.

    first your argument was that parents should let their kids walk the neighborhoods. when i pointed out that that's not the real issue, you say parents know whats best for their kids. when i supplied evidence to the contrary, you brought it around to walking the neighborhood again.

    are...are you okay?

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    We're talking about a specific case here and you've already devolved into calling me a jackass and hoping I didn't have kids.

    Are you okay?

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago*

    They're what we call in Spanish a nested egg or a broken egg, depending on their background.

    Nested egg for the ones who's parents hovered them so intensely they never hatched and are still an egg, never maturing and learning risks.

    A broken egg for the ones who saw way too much trauma way too young and it broke them, so they also never got to mature.

    But both will think a nearby pond is deadly, because they never had a parent teach them that ponds are dangerous so stay away until you're older.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    I had a park with a pond right in my childhood neighborhood, off my street, that was one of the main places I used to play (unsupervised), and I don't know of anyone who drowned. Because it's a pond, and there was also never some strange mystical gust of wind that blew me into it.

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