For the record, starting any advice "as a man" when talking to a woman is going to ruffle feathers. It's presumptuous and rude. As if you being a man gives you more authority to advise women. Especially in a women's only community - even if we didn't have the rule "women only", that advice would be taken poorly here.
You only pretend to respect women. Your actions here have laid bare your true feelings about boundaries that women put up.
I didn't start out rude to you:
There were over 60 comments when you first replied 2 hours ago. Please don’t lie.
You know the rules here now. You know you’re breaking them now.