Nah, sharing is good. The moment though... that's not the right moment. Meeting phase, fun phase, flirty phase, sharing phase, fun phase, flirty phase, saucy phase. There needs to be a couple eras between exposing emotional damage and saucy times.

Unless you're just going for saucy times, then there's no need to unearth the damage set expatations and have a good time for a while.