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What is something you wish cis people knew? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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What is something you learned or experienced from being trans that you wish you knew pre-transition, or that you wish cis people knew?

I'll go first: the temperature differences when going from testosterone-dominance to estrogen-dominance is not just real but significant, my body just puts out less heat and I feel colder much easier now even when otherwise maintaining a high metabolism, eating in excess, etc.

It may have just been my trans denial before, but I really wanted to believe that the difference was not that great and I was wrong.

What's something you wish people knew?

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[–] 10 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

I wish more cis folks knew that to me, simply being me, is as normal as being themselves is to them. I'm not a walk on the wild side, nor a walking queer chyron. I'm not your token, your conversational curio. I'm not your unicorn!

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 year ago

    Such a great point, being trans is made into an exotic fetish, but it's rather mundane really. This is a lot like how women are treated under patriarchy, to be honest. They are made into mysterious, sexual creatures rather than just people like anyone else. They are extended into the "Other" and alienated from common humanity.

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