And in the mean time I read that there are frequent and apparently non trivial breakage on version.
Not trying to point finger since it is not easy, but thinking about the upgrade strategy of a project (or language) and help consumers of your project (and their plugin) get to the next version would help them on this issue. We have examples of languages doing this (or not). There may be more challenges for an embedded languages (than for Rust or Python) but I'm sure some concepts can still be applied anyway.