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[–] 2 points 3 months ago (1 child)

Ouch, sorry to hear that. It's harder to evaluate a relationship in such a context. Though, like you said, she's barely there so... maybe that helps since it's not too different from not being in a relationship anyway. I hope you have better luck going forward.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 3 months ago

    I've been doing some processing and realizing though she is unreliable and has a lot of committments, a bigger problem for me is that I kind don't know what to do with romance at this point in my life. I guess I don't believe in it anymore. I'm kind of OK being who I am in my life and I don't want to play games of pretending to be something I'm not for someone else. I think that after you've had several romantic partners who mostly disappear, you start to wonder if this romance thing isn't just entirely transactional, and at a high cost.

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