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[–] 5 points 3 months ago (1 child)

This isn't a direct answer, but from your other comments, I think it's useful advice.

Talk to a therapist about this. If you don't have one, find one. You sound unhappy in your relationship. Sometimes that's strictly a relationship problem, but often there's personal work that needs to be done. Doing that personal work might help you be happy in your current relationship or it might help you leave that relationship and transition to something better.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 3 months ago

    "It is easier to become a good therapist than to find one." --Daniel Mackler

    I do have some work to do. I got a workbook on avoidant attachment style, which might be where this post is coming from.

    I've had nothing but bad experience with therapy. You may have a found a good therapist for what you were looking for, but they actually suck quite a bit in my experience.

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