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[–] [S] 1 point 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

What they say: "Here are the reasons I can't see you today."
What we hear: "Here is a long list of things that are all more important to me than you are."

I'm just cutting her off now mid-sentence. "Can you make it for 3:30 today? Yes or no? If no, when can you make it?"

Probably not going to last long at this rate.

But yeah, definitely within the realm of personal choice, as far as psychology allows.

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