For her, a quota might be how she relates to the world. I think the important parts are that you are telling her how much time you need and what types of together time, and that she is making time for you.
That might not be a permanent way of things. But it's how she might need it structured initially until you have a routine.
I think the important questions are: are you having fun? And do you see a future?
If she is making you a part of her life, and hearing you out and trying to respond to your concerns, those are good signs for the latter.