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[–] 19 points 3 months ago

If it does not interfere with your life, then it's not a problem.

Might be a hot take, but:

  • Sex is completely normal and natural.
  • Most of the sex addiction discourse is astroturfed by christian fundamentalists.
  • Most of the sex addiction stories I've read so far is just people wishing their life back before they had those weird urges, that came at a time they're way too immature for them mentally.
  • Unless you're some variant of asexual, you will have sexual needs. They're hardwired into you. Please them as long as
    • the way of pleasing them won't harm you,
    • it doesn't violate someone's consent.
  • The "grindset" is toxic, people should work less than 40 hours/week by this point, not 100 hours. The problem isn't too much time for sex but rather not enough time for it.
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