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[–] 14 points 3 months ago (8 children)

I think everything is normal that is natural for you and isn’t disruptive.

Sorry for the Reddit link, and I don’t know your age, but you may find this discussion in the psychologyofsex sub interesting.

‘Normal’ is a very wide range.

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  • [+] [S] 3 points 3 months ago (7 children)
  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago* (4 children)

    Some people in that thread said the same. Like I said, everything is normal. There’s a huge range, from a few times a day to a couple of times a year. Just don’t judge yourself against others, and especially wth something as personal as this. I think your 2-3 times per day is perfectly fine. /hugs

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    If you just randomly wanted to know everyone, I'm also an outlier from the opposite pole of the spectrum lol.

    For my it's maybe several times a year when I get curious enough to try. Never has worked out tho. I always compare it to that to me it probably feels like what touching your elbow is like. It just feels like my body and nothing "good" or interesting happens when I try. It's like someone forgot to hook up my wiring or something. Always been this way.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Interesting. If you don't mind me asking, do you get mentally excited? Do you feel physically attracted to people? An urge to do something?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago

    Only on very very very rare occasions. Typically from watching sex scenes on TV and in movies. And I only very rarely watch shows with sex scenes anyway (not because I'm trying to avoid them...just because they don't tend to show up in most media I consume). Tried porn but it doesn't do it for me. When I've tried to do something about the feeling to see where it takes me, it unfortunately has just never led anywhere. I don't generally view people that way outsode of TV/film. I guess my brain doesn't spontaneously come up with themes like that outside of TV and film. I've always been curious to see how MDMA might affect someone like me.

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