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submitted 4 months ago by compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I’ve been slowly coming out to people for a while, but always like one person at a time. But now that I’ve been on HRT for a while (and my boobs are starting to get noticeable) I want to get this all over with and just be out to everyone.

So the other day, I texted my friend who organizes a group that we’re part of, and she was so supportive! And then I put a message in the Discord server for the group and everyone was so kind and supportive and just welcomed me with no hesitation!!! 🥰 It really made my whole week

Now it’s just the hard ones left (work and family), but at least I know I have my communities of support if I need them ❤️

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[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone [S] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Very true haha 😂 Agree it’s not the ideal plan, but if I don’t get an offer somewhere else soon, I might go for it! I’m just so sick of having to boymode every weekday.

But I do already have a bit of a paper trail going on this stuff… I guess I just worry that HR would side with the director who has been here more than a decade, instead of the trans girl who’s been there less than 3.

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[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago

HR will side with the company, every time.

That MIGHT mean stonewalling you, if they think they can get away with it.

It MIGHT mean a cheque and you signing a release.

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[–] CannonFodder@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

If things blow up, keep cool and if HR comes to you with something to sign - even if it means they'll pay you some compensation- DONT SIGN ANYTHING! Get an employment lawyer - they live for this shit, and some will work on commission. This could be a great opportunity!

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