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[–] 4 points 4 months ago (29 children)

I kind of think it's jealousy. It looks super easy for women to make good money doing sex work. I'm not saying it is super easy, but it has that appearance. It looks like they get to take a few pictures, some video, and they're making just as much or more than the man that's upset about it.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (28 children)

    I’d love for any of those jealous men to try to sell themselves on a platform like onlyfans and see how hard it is to make money.

    It’s actually rather difficult and time consuming.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (13 children)

    You're basing this on what?

    I know men and women who do only fans, I've helped film scenes for them. They all put in hours every day into managing their communities and generating content.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children)

    I think they’re actually one of those jealous men hahah

    He literally believes the lie that it’s easy for women to make money on onlyfans.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago* (3 children)

    I know, well, second hand, how much work goes into it. I have a few friends who use it as a primary source of income and it's a constant, daily effort. You have to know marketing trends, keep up with your fanbase, send personalized messages to people you don't give a fuck about, not to mention the hours of hair and makeup, daily gym routine and diet to maintain.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah this guy’s heart is sorta in the right place, but he’s still falling for the fallacy that women can sell nudes much easier than men.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (7 children)

    Look at any list of top creators on OnlyFans. How many of them are men?

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (5 children)

    And how many thousands of women are on onlyfans and also not in the top creators?

    You’re starting to reveal your real thoughts here.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (4 children)

    But that's just it. The number of women who are are successful are far greater than men. It's just a numbers game of having a larger potential audience. I didn't say it was easy, nor did I imply that it is. I quite literally said the opposite, that it only appears easy.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago* (3 children)

    The number of men who are successful doctors or chefs are far greater than women.

    You should stop while you’re ahead.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    You’re still pushing it’s much easier for women to do so than men.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not saying "much easier", but I do think you've stumbled upon where I think our disagreement truly is. I'm speaking in pluralities. Women and men, groups of people. Clearly there are more successful women than men. As any creator ranking can demonstrate. However, I think you are coming from an individualistic standpoint. Of which I make no assumption. For an individual woman or man, I have no idea if it's harder or easier and frankly I don't care because I assume they're both incredibly hard. A man has a limited audience and a woman has more competition. I have no clue what set of differences are harder than the other and I don't pretend to know.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (13 children)

    Have you forgotten about gay men?

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (12 children)

    No. That's a much smaller and specific audience.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (11 children)

    Women have to be specific when selling sex, too.

    Have you taken the time to read the rules of this community yet?

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (10 children)

    Is it against the rules to state the obvious? Look, I'm not trying to attack or degrade anyone. I'm not saying women in sex work have it easy, I never even implied it.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (9 children)

    This is a women’s only community.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (8 children)

    Okay, does that invalidate anything? It came up under the all section, my bad for being a wondering traveler I guess.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    It’s clear you don’t belong here and there is a responsibility to adhere to community rules.

    It only took you like 2 comments before you revealed that you do actually think it’s easy for women to make money on onlyfans just by being women.

    So not only are you breaking the very first rule of this community, but you’re also doubling down on a misogynistic stereotype.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (3 children)

    I did not. It took you misinterpreting what I have written to convince yourself that's what I said. I clearly said it's not easy for anyone.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (2 children)

    Look, I had bantered with you about how these types of men should try it and see how hard it is.

    You snapped back and started arguing about it.

    Women who sell on onlyfans have to be specific and market themselves and finds fans willing to pay as well. It’s not enough to just be a woman and be naked online.

    I’m not going to get into the intricacies of selling oneself online with you here because this isn’t the place for it.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    It’s not enough to just be a woman and be naked online.

    I agree and never said it wasn't. I actually said the opposite. I said it only appears to be easy.

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