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How do you get out of your own head? (lemmy.world)
submitted 4 months ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I find I am my own worst enemy. Self sabotaging before I even get started. Doubt. The cycles of starting and then quitting jobs or healthy habits.

What are your tricks to get out of your own head?

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[–] [S] 5 points 4 months ago (1 child)

That believing in self is the fucking worst. It's so much easier to help others.

Circle ain't the problem it's me not being able to accept love.

I appreciate your advice and time.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago*

    Circle ain't the problem it's me not being able to accept love.

    I feel that. I had to fake it till I could make it. I don't know if that can help everyone, but it helped me.

    I made rules for myself about how I would choose to respond to love, and first they became habits, and then much later, they came with the kind of feelings that I suspect many people got for free from day one.

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