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[–] 66 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Maybe he just legit wants to see what they have planned.

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  • [–] 70 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    When I was single I loved hanging out with groups and basically deferring the decision of who actually try to get with, after I got to know them a bit better.

    If the group all want me to end up with the same woman, and they're all wingmanning that one friend, maybe because she's more shy, then it'd be great to hang out with them as a group and see if we're compatible.

    If they all individually want to hook up with me, great, let's see them all in a comfortable and fun setting to see who I get along with best.

    And even if it turns out I wouldn't want to hook up with any of them, if they're fun people it would be fun to hang out and see what else is going on. It's actually a lot easier to talk to women when you're already surrounded by women. And maybe you could introduce your own friend who would get along better with one or more of them.

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